Child Care: Babysitter Guidelines
If possible, talk with and get to know a new babysitter before letting him or her care for your child. Talking is a way to make sure you find the right person to care for your child. Arrange for the sitter to meet your child before babysitting if possible.
It helps to share information with babysitters, both when you first talk to them and when you leave the house. This gives the babysitter a better idea of what you expect. Show the sitter around your house and point out where to find things they may need. Talk about the fire escape plan and emergency exits.
Here is some information the babysitter should have while you are away:
- Your family’s name, phone number, address, and the nearest cross street
- Location of exits, first aid supplies, fire extinguishers, and flashlights
- Where you will be, how you can be reached, and when you will return
- Important phone numbers: police, fire, poison control center, hospital, and your child’s doctor. Post the numbers where they are easy to find, such as on the refrigerator or near the phone.
- The name and phone number of nearby friends, neighbors, or relatives
- Children’s names, ages, weights, any food allergies or medical conditions, and information about medicines that your child needs to take, such as the name of the medicine, when it should be given, and how much to give. Make sure the sitter does not give any medicine without your OK.
- Rules that apply to both the child and to the sitter. For example, rules about friends visiting, TV, game and computer use, how to answer the telephone, outdoor play, smoking, and snacks.
- Warnings about not opening the door to strangers
- Instructions about feeding and bathing your child
- Special instructions about such things as your child’s fears, favorite play activities, or family pets
- Bedtime routines such as brushing teeth, washing hands, favorite bedtime story, night lights, music, special blankets, stuffed animals, and bedroom door open or closed
- How to handle misbehavior
- How to calm a crying baby – and NEVER to shake a baby or young child
- Rules for play and places the child should avoid, such as the garage, basement, office, or swimming pool
Make sure the sitter:
- Knows CPR and has first aid training
- Never leaves your child unattended or alone in the house, especially while your child is in a high chair, walker, bath, or stroller
- Knows that it is OK to call you with any questions or concerns
If you do not have a land-line in your home, make sure the sitter has a cell phone that is fully charged and has phone reception at your home.
Last modified: 2014-06-02
Last reviewed: 2014-05-30
Child Care: Babysitter Guidelines: References
American Academy of Pediatrics, “Finding A Sitter,†5/11/2013, accessed May 20, 2014, from http://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/work-play/Pages/Finding-a-Sitter.aspx
American Academy of Pediatrics,, “Babysitting Reminders,†8/7/2013, accessed May 20, 2014, from http://www.healthychildren.org/English/safety-prevention/at-home/Pages/Babysitting-Reminders.aspx “A Guide to the business of babysitting,†2012, http://urbanext.illinois.edu/babysitting/index.cfm, accessed May 5, 2012. “Babysitter Safety – What Parents and Sitters Need to Know†http://www.med.umich.edu/yourchild/topics/babysit.htm, June 2011, accessed May 5, 2012.
AAP “Baby-sitting Reminders, June, 2010. Accessed June 11, 2010, http://www.healthychildren.org, Gerber “Parenting Advice/Babysitter Guidelinesâ€, 2009, Accessed June 11, 2010, http://gerber.com